Frequently asked questions about mediation and divorce
General information about mediation
The most frequently asked questions about costs:
1. What does a divorce via mediation cost on average?
An average divorce process via mediation typically costs between €1,100 and €1,700 per person (excluding VAT), depending on the complexity of the situation and the number of sessions required. These costs already include court fees (fixed court costs).
2. What determines the costs?
The total cost of mediation depends on, among other things:
- the number of conversations needed
- the degree of consultation or conflict between parties
- agreements regarding children and finances
- potential international aspects or complex asset situations
The better parties are able to make agreements together, the faster the process often proceeds.
3. What additional costs are involved?
In addition to the costs for the mediator, there are further costs for:
- documents (e.g. marriage certificate and extracts)
- potential home appraisal costs
- potential costs for financial advice
- possible costs for arranging a meeting room
4. Is mediation cheaper than a lawyer?
In most cases, yes. With mediation, you work together on a single process, which usually results in lower costs than when both parties hire their own lawyer.
5. Do I have to share the costs with my partner?
Yes, in most cases the costs of mediation are borne jointly, often half each. Other arrangements are also possible.
6. Can I get a subsidy for mediation?
Sometimes subsidized legal aid is possible (legal aid grant). This depends on your income and assets.
7. Who pays for the mediation?
In most cases, both parties pay the costs of the mediation together. We agree in advance on exactly how this will be divided. This is often done 50/50, but a different distribution is also possible.
In some situations, the costs can be (partially) offset against the agreements regarding the divorce, or there is entitlement to subsidized legal aid (legal aid grant), depending on income.
This is always clearly discussed during the introductory meeting, so that you know what to expect beforehand.
