How do we calculate the child costs?

Divorce often raises many questions, and one of the most important is how to share the financial responsibility for your children. Both parents want clarity on the costs involved and, above all, want to ensure that their children continue to receive the financial support they need.

When calculating child-related expenses or child support, several factors are taken into account, including each parent's financial situation, the costs of raising the children, and the parenting arrangement. Making clear agreements from the outset helps prevent misunderstandings and reduces the risk of conflict in the future.

Child support and the cost of raising children

After a divorce or separation, both parents remain financially responsible for their children.

Child support is the financial contribution that parents make towards the costs of raising children. The amount is determined by looking at the children's financial needs, each parent's income and financial capacity, and the parenting arrangement. In many families, the parent with whom the children spend less time contributes by paying child support to the parent who provides most of the day-to-day care.

However: every family is different. Whether you have a traditional parenting arrangement or share the care equally through co-parenting, clear financial agreements help create stability for both parents and children.


Mediation can help you reach fair, practical agreements that reflect your family's unique situation and reduce the risk of future disputes.

Child support in a co-parenting situation?

In co-parenting arrangements, parents sometimes opt for a different solution: a child(ren) account. Both parents deposit an agreed amount into a joint account used to pay for the children's expenses, such as clothing, school, and sports. This can provide more clarity and equality, but it does require clear agreements regarding the amount of contributions and which costs are paid via the child account.