International divorce or separation
As an expat an (international) divorce can be particularly challenging. You may already be navigating life in a different country, away from family and familiar support networks, and then have to deal with the very personal process of ending your marriage. At the same time, questions about different nationalities, a marriage abroad, living in different countries, or children and assets across borders can make the legalities and practical aspects considerably more complex. The first step is to find an experienced, professional and neutral mediator to help you both navigate the process.
In an international divorce, it is important to understand which country's law applies, where the divorce can be filed, and how arrangements concerning children, finances, the family home and other matters can be recognised and implemented across borders. This can feel overwhelming, particularly when you are trying to make important decisions during an already emotional period.
At MDTN, international couples receive personal, individual guidance throughout the mediation process. I help you understand the issues that need to be addressed, bring clarity to the legal and practical complexities, and support you in having constructive conversations about the future.
The aim is not simply to arrange the legal aspects of your divorce, but to help you reach clear, fair and workable agreements that both of you can move forward with—wherever in the world your lives may take
When is an international divorce considered international?
- When you both have a nationality other than Dutch
- You live in the Netherlands but are not married under Dutch law.
- You (or one of you) do not speak the Dutch language.
- There is uncertainty regarding which law applies (which country).




