Frequently asked questions about international divorce

  • Can I get a divorce in the Netherlands if I got married abroad?

    A marriage validly concluded abroad can in many cases also be recognized as a marriage in the Netherlands. As a result, it may be possible to apply for a divorce through the Dutch courts, provided that the rules of jurisdiction are met.

  • Which law applies to my divorce?

    Dutch law generally applies to the divorce itself when the Dutch court has jurisdiction. However, other international rules may apply to matters such as property, spousal maintenance, and parental responsibility.

  • Can we divorce in the Netherlands if we have different nationalities?

    Yes. Spouses with different nationalities can often divorce in the Netherlands if one or both partners have a sufficient connection to the Netherlands.

  • Do both spouses have to live in the Netherlands?

    Not necessary. In certain situations, it is sufficient for one of the spouses to reside in the Netherlands to give the Dutch court jurisdiction.

  • What happens if my partner lives in another country?

    Even then, an international divorce is possible. However, additional rules may apply regarding the jurisdiction of the court, the service of documents, and the recognition of the divorce abroad.

  • Which law applies to our assets?

    The law applicable to your matrimonial property regime depends, among other things, on where and when you got married, your nationality, and the place where you established your first joint habitual residence after the marriage.

  • What happens to assets or real estate abroad?

    Foreign assets must often be included in the settlement of the divorce. How real estate, investments, or bank accounts abroad are treated depends on the applicable law and the country where these assets are located.


  • How is child support determined in an international divorce?

    When the children live in the Netherlands, Dutch law generally applies to child support. The amount of the contribution is usually determined based on the needs of the children and the financial capacity of both parents, in accordance with Dutch guidelines and calculation methods.


    In international situations, additional questions may arise, for example regarding income earned abroad, exchange rates, or the collection of maintenance in another country. However, when the children have their habitual residence in the Netherlands, child maintenance is usually assessed according to Dutch law.


  • How is spousal maintenance determined?

    The law applicable to spousal maintenance depends on the circumstances of the case and the relevant international rules. In many situations where both spouses reside in the Netherlands, Dutch law will apply. However, in international divorces, additional factors may play a role, for example, when different nationalities or countries are involved.

    During mediation, these questions can be discussed early on, so that both parties gain clarity regarding their legal position and can make well-considered choices.

  • What happens if one of the parents wants to move abroad with the children?

    For a relocation of children abroad, the consent of the other parent is generally required. If that consent is lacking, substitute consent from the court may be requested in some cases.

  • Can mediation be used in an international divorce?

    Yes. Mediation is often particularly suitable for international divorces, because parties can discuss practical and legal issues jointly, even when different legal systems are involved.

  • Is an international divorce more expensive than a national divorce? question

    This can be the case, especially when legal advice is required in multiple countries or when assets and children are located in different countries. Mediation often helps to limit costs and complexity.

  • Is a Dutch divorce recognized in other countries?

    In many countries this is the case, but the recognition procedure varies by country. It is therefore important to investigate in good time whether additional formalities are required. Recognition depends on the country concerned and may require additional formalities.

  • How long does an international divorce take?

    The duration depends on the complexity of the case, the countries involved, and whether the parties can reach an agreement through mediation.

  • Can we make agreements ourselves instead of going to court?

    In many cases, yes. Through mediation, partners can make agreements regarding the children, finances, alimony, pension, and assets. These agreements can subsequently be recorded and become part of the legal settlement of the divorce.